I'm a sixty something dominant with 30 years experience of BDSM. I love it, I write about it, I have written 14 books to date. I have had lady friends to visit and sometime these ladies turn out to be sluts and have to be punished.
To me BDSM is not an excuse for torturing someone just to inflict pain. It is, as a friend once said, 'sex on steroids' it is a way of letting your partner experience all those fantasies that she/he has been conditioned to believe were 'dirty or perverted' and into allowing them to experience multiple orgasms.
Life has just dealt me a magnificent hand, or more correctly a magnificent body in the shape of the lovely domino, We are now learning and looking for playmates.
To me the image on this profile is the essence of BDSM, a beautiful woman hung by her ankles waiting for the whip, knowing that some of the strokes will be to her cunt.
You can find my books at my site www.thepainloft.com