My slave kat and I live a strict, old school form of protocol based M/s. As her owner, I am very much her trainer/dominant/sexual sadist. Although a connected relationship is important, so is your actual submission.
I have thrown long whips on female skin since age seven (fun cousin). My formal three year apprenticeship in poly power exchange life began at 5:30pm, May 14, 1978 with The Group of Friends in Omaha Nebraska. During my apprenticeship, I was mentored by Grand Domme, Annette Armond of Lyon, France.
May 15 1978 I was introduced to the Group of Friends and began training as a slave keeper.
June of 1979, I served one year as no rights slave property to GOF membership.
April of 1980, I took full ownership of joan and lise as my slaves.
Since that time I have owned GofHouse as a poly, M/s/s training house. For the past four decades, I have done pretty much everything and touched every taboo. If you do not read your kink here do not assume I know nothing about it. I have been a mentor, trainer, owner, event and seminar presenter.
Seminar topics I have presented:
European flogging technique
Scene transition management
Endurance whipping, caning, flogging scenes
TPE, CPE, Power Balance
Poly Myth & Reality
Breaking, Edging, Drone and Gimp management.
The above has been given or performed in England, Germany, Canada and the Denver, front range area gatherings, parties, clubs and events. http://www.westword.com/slideshow/fetish-ball-at-the-church-nsfw-6138439/31
As the decades pass, (40 years of Ownership/trainer, TPE, BDSM) I find my tolerance for the dumbed down, politically correct version of this once great lifestyle at near zero. These days, I just enjoy my slave kat in a quiet life lived differently.