Hi, I'm an educated, discreet American who has studied psychology, health and sexual science over the years. I'm sympathetic to paraphilias like BDSM. I realize it can be a huge turn-on with a willing partner, but there are issues with the acceptance and practice of BDSM too. To that end, I offer informal "Life Coach" counseling for those making the journey into BDSM with real-world relationship(s). I can offer counseling, advice or just a sympathetic ear to chat about your BDSM status and maybe offer some knowledge-based guidance. And no, I don't charge anything---I'm just glad to guide others and serve as a sounding board for your thoughts and choices. Send me an email! I think this site automatically censors email addresses, so mine is Donnamci56 "at" gmail "dotcom", which you can piece together.